Grace is Gone

Sometimes life throws something at us we can't handle, whether it be common or uncommon. Somethings happen that in time we must live through. The loss of a loved one is one of those times.

I have just seen a powerful, moving film called Grace is Gone starring John Cusack. "Grace" is the story of a man named Stanley. From the beginning of the film, you get the impression of a man who is just going through the motions of living his life, keeping his family stable, and working a job he really doesn't like while his wife does a tour in Iraq.

Stan is not very forthcoming in the spousal support group he is in and at times he can be a really mean dad to his two girls. But, as the film progresses, we begin to see a man who loves his children, and misses his wife desperately.

Upon the news of his wife's death (the news no family wishes to receive), Stan decides to take his children on a road trip instead of telling them outright that their mother would not be coming home. Stanley is a man who is disconnected from his life and his children emotionally. What could have unfolded into a bigger tragedy, instead becomes a journey of rediscovery and acceptance for Stanley. He is able to appreciate what he does have in this two girls and grow stronger as an individual.

This is a very touching film in many ways. It made think, especially, of the families that have to go through this everyday. One day this war is going to end (thank God), but for the families of loved ones on tours in Iraq and Afghanistan a part of them will be lost over there.

There is an organisation called TAPS (Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors)and thankfully it exists for the families with loved ones lost in the war. Hopefully, we can all take time out in our own individual communities to help someone dealing with this profound loss.

The website is www.taps.org

The movie is called Grace is Gone and it is a privilege to see the film to reflect on our fallen heroes and making sure they are not forgotten is a worthy cause to become involved in.